Hi I’m looking for a little support. My husband lost his l

Hi I’m looking for a little support. My husband lost his leg 2years ago and on dec 4 / 3 weeks ago he lost his other leg due to vascular diseas and diabetes. We thought we were semi prepared this time, we weren’t. Just sitting up is a problem for him and going to the bathroom and getting his pants back on is really hard. He’s almost fallen a few times. He’s hurting so much emotionally he keeps saying he doesn’t want to live this way. I just don’t have a clue what to say or do for him. I feel like I’m drowning

I am so sorry. just be supportive and help him adjust to this. physically and emotionally