Hi! I miss my baby's dad. He is gone for a few months and I have no clue how to deal with this. The past 3 years we spent every day togheter. What can I do to stop crying and to get up and going.... any one has any ideea?
2 Hearts
Give your undivided attention to that baby..
1 Heart
@tay1_23xoxo i don’t know if you are writting anything. the website said you wrote but I can only see this post of yours.
I do that but still I find myself crying all day .
@TennisPlayer : I have nobody. all alone here. friends and fammily are over the seas…we skype but we have a 10 h difference and he has to work…
@TennisPlayer - i will check to see if I can find such classes… thank you! that will cover part of the problem. the other part is what do I do when the night comes… i can’t stop crying…
I try to keep bussy...I will try meditationasis.com . I feel like I made a huge mistake by not going with him. but I thought we would save some money if I stay behinde
Try to have date nights over the computer or phone. Or learn a hard hobby so by the time he is back you would have something to keep you busy and challenged. It will be okay. He will be back before you know it :)
3 Hearts
@TennisPlayer - sorry for the late answer. I am 34. I know I should be more rational but…
@TennisPlayer - is almoust a week since he is away and I still can’t get used to being alone. my baby is only 1 and 9 months old, I play with her, I take her swimming, read to her and other activities…but, as I said before, the nights are horrible. when I close the door and there is no one comming home, no one to talk to…
@TennisPlayer - i am in las vegas. I would love to chat
I know how you feel. The hubby and I were inseparable and then he got set out of town for work. The last couple of years he has been gone more than he has been home. For us what works is we text and talk on the phone often. We also try to go up and visit him just to break up the time he is gone. I also try to keep myself and the kids busy to help pass the time *hugs* it will get better