Hi I'm Lindsey, I'm new here. I just want to say that it's so difficult having a narsistic mother. She torchered me mentally and i developed anorexia because of her abuse. She got the whole family against me and my husband by telling complete lies. The only family members that know is my aunt, my cousin and now my brother. Mom thinks his baby is hers, she's crazy. My doctors told me that I needed to get a restraining order because I was too sick to keep her in my life, she was deadly to me. So, yes my father is her enabler. He is brainwashed by her. When I was sick and dying in the hospital, my husband called my mom urgently telling her it was an emergency and she needs to come to the hospital. Instead, she said no there's nothing I can do, I'm making cookies for my grandchildren. My parents abandoned me in every sense of the manner when I needed them the most. I'm an orphan, and I think about it often because I wonder what I would of been like with a normal mother.
hi welcome . im new her e too . since i joined here i feel less lonely . and i saw some ppl got problems much tougher than me ..it made me to take focus off from me n think about others ..well my family have abandoned me too .. my case its my dad who is like emeny with me ...why is ur mom treating u like this ?
I'm glad your not lonely. I'm sorry your parents also abandoned you u don't deserve that treatment at all, we're human beings who just need and want to be loved! Well, when my mother grew up her dad sexually abused her and she had a very narsistic mother who treated her horribly. She took on the characteristics of her mother and learned through the years that that's how your support to treat your kids. When I was 16 she hit so mad at me she chased me around the house trying to spank me. My brother has never done wrong though, he has always been the golden child. He could literally have gotten away with murder and mom would back him up. But, I was the one who she abused. As I got older the mental abuse got more harsh.