Hi Single Dad's, trying to understand my boyfriend from a di

Hi Single Dad's, trying to understand my boyfriend from a different perspective. He is the father of 3 children, he is isolating himself and has asked us to not speak until October 5th. I could use some advice from the man's perspective. I want to understand.

What else is going on in his life?

That's odd he set a date that he doesn't want to talk to you until. Maybe he's trying to just focus on his children for a little bit?