Hi. Trying to decide if I should get out of a long-term relationship, marriage really. Feeling uncertain and scared. Been with him 23 years. . . Some of them good, but less and less good every year now. Thanks for listening.
I think its important to start with the question of why do you want out? How would that make you feel?
Tired of the alcohol, accusations and belittling. I am enabling some of this, but it needs to stop, on both our sides.
@Fahrenheit do you two have any kids together? What age? How do you feel with each Other?
No Children. Sometimes we have a good time around each other, but mostly I feel like I have to tiptoe around so as not to upset him in any way. I have no idea how he feels, he won't talk about it.
If this is not the life you want to live. It's important you strongly consider the possibility of making the life you want.
well after long relationship of about 23 years... why such things happened that you want to seperate with your husband ?
Uh, have you read the other comments? Thanks for replying.
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well sorry i didn't read your above comments and ask same qustion whose answer you already given it here... well I just like to you say that things changed with time like 23 ago you were very comfortable with your husband but now he is changed like he doing that things which you don't like so I think you have to talk with you husband it and talk with him very openly and also tell him that when you got married with him you never that after a long time you will such day or problems as your suffering because of him.