Hi

Hi

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I'm new here and freshly out of a relationship with a narcissist

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@mindymouse Welcome to SG.

I've done a lot of reading. I know what he is now. I still can't seem to make my heart believe it.

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@mindymouse I can relate. I’m nearly five months out and my heart still is hanging on. I never want him back but it still hurts. Things get better though. Keep strong. No one deserves a life with them.

Mine has been on again off again for the past year and a half. I knew there was something wrong, but didn't realize it was narcissism.

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@Yellowrose10 I don’t know if I’m typing in the correct box

Yes, but my call block lets him leave voice mail.

@mindymouse you may have to change your number. Most carriers allow it as a one time freebie.Having to hear the narc’s voice on voicemail can be damaging.

Still playing the victim, saying I'm a cold hearted b.

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@mindymouse What a nice guy. All the more reason to stay NC. Keep strong. It will be worth it. You’ll see. :slight_smile:

I feel like it doesn't end. I'm worn out, exhausted.

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@mindymouse It does end when we take our power back. You’ve been with a toxic person for a year and a half it will take time for you to heal. Everyone heals differently at different paces. Having others to talk with who have been through it, will be very good for recovery.

Oh I have no problem calling the police. I have called police several times over the past 18 months.

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@mindymouse welcome to SG we are here for you…just read your thread… Yes we can all relate to everything you said…glad you are going narc free…big hugs☺

I need to vent. Just paid my cable bill and there was 40 in Porn on my bill. So frustrated. I paid it, but I couldn't really afford it.

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@mindymouse ugh…so sick. Mine payed 5$ per day on porn through his cell. Other than that. How’s things?

Ok, just things keep popping up that cost me more money.
I'm struggling and it hurts that I have financial worry on top of all the other stuff.

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He always said I was selfish and self centered. I know now that was him projecting his flaws onto me.

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@mindymouse I hear you on this one!! My ex husband narc was notorious for saying that about me. He still says it now that we are divorced as well.