How do I confront my boyfriend about something I think will tear us apart?
carefully, and with care. and kindness. People do messed up things because they're in pain. over something. It is hard when you trap men in a lie. They will deny. It is a shameful quality that even I have done. When a woman really wants more than anything is someone that is truthful and not deceitful.
This is difficult. I don't want to hurt him but I don't want to be hurt in the process either. I love him but I can't continue to pretend I don't see the signs of him lying to me.