I'm not getting the support I need here.
Can somebody help me with how do I cancel my account?
I'm not sure how to cancel your account. I'm sorry you did not get any support on here. If you want to talk I'm here.
bluestar, I did get some support. But I haven't been getting enough of it. Nobody has asked me to be their friend. I asked 1 person to be my friend and I never got a reply.
But if you want to talk, I guess we can.
Bunny I try my best to be supportive to people and reply to their post. I haven’t even tried to add support friends. I just write and read other people’s post and make comments. That’s how I’ve been getting thru my tough times. There are good people here, so maybe just keep adding people as friends until you get a reply because some people don’t check as much as others. Take care
bunny i assure you this is an extremely suportive site. it may take some time to get to know others--but give it a chance....i hope you change your mind.... dont think that just becasue some one didnt freind you it is bad---things take time to progress but if you get off too fast--you re not giving the support on here a chance
Christa 33, Ok.
please dont expect replies to happen right away--bunny. i try so hard to reply to everyone but you know--it is hard to get to everyone ...and bunny--the support friend feature here--doesnt work all the time as i try to approve them but it doesnt always work on here...
it really does take time to get to know people on here--time to grow and open up--just as in personal relationships..im glad you reconsidered..
and know---sometimes it takes time for people to reply back, please dont take it personal...
hugz!
maureen
Bunny,
I did a quick check to see if you were actually not getting any reply's.
In just a few seconds. I counted (43 responses that you have gotten just recently) !!
"Make a few high profile posts and get your self noticed"
I've had several friend requests ignored.
Things happen for a reason. Probably cuz, when someone does answer or even send you a friend request it will be much better than the one time you tried anyway.
bluestar #3, Ok, I will do that. I'm sorry if I said anything wrong.
christa #4, Ok, I'll give it more of a chance. Because no one had friended me, I left left out.
trick, Ok. What is a high profile post?
Bunny,
hi profile: Something posted in the main public area of your favorite group here. With a catchy title that will entice people to read it. Something that says you have good stuff to give rather than Just looking to take.
And Don,t be mean to yourself, by telling yourself things that aren’t true. I am certain that you have good things to give…!!
In the body of you’re posts, Write some stuff about What you would like to accomplish. What you think would be good progress. Ask specific questions about has anyone had this problem? and if you found a way to make it better what did you do? Pose more than one question, So they will illicit response form a broader range of people.
Send Love in general to others.
With statements similar to:
I’m sure if we work together, we can beat this.
Look through the other groups on this site, and ask yourself this question:
Because I have This condition It makes me feel? What? Anxious, depressed, gives me low self esteem, my family doesn’t understand, I look for codependent relationships so I can get out of myself, it makes me angry, I just want to get drunk and forget about it. Etc. Etc.
Then join those groups that Apply… And go ahead and post like you usually would but include all those groups to receive your posts. The more people you appeal to the more likely you are to find the help your looking for.
Don’t expect one or two posts to one or two groups to provide you with instant answers.
Make a bunch of posts at first. So if nothing else, people will be familliar with your name.
Sooner or later people are going to ask themselves, Who is this Bunny? and they will read your posts to find out. “Get yourself noticed.”
I hope this wasen’t too blunt. I don’t mean to offend you in any way. I’m just answering your question about
“what is high profile”?
One of the quickest ways to get a response is to have something to give. The hand that gives,gathers…
Do some web searches, read some books, find some positive inspiring things that make sense to you, or make you feel better, and then share those things in you posts.
I wish you all the best.
And I hope that you will
actively peruse happiness
for yourself. Seek and ye shall find.
Patrick L.
aka Pa(trick)
Keep on reaching out for support:) Don't get discouraged friend!!! People are here and they care:)
Bunny thank you for being patient & sometimes it takes more time cause the site changes certain things around for better options & more choices/alternatives, then people will start finding you or you can join in on a conversation from someone elses post.
Hang in there w/us.
April
Maniclover; April;, Ok, thanks.
Hi Bunny. I dont have 'friend requests' either; but please keep in mind, this is not facebook, there is no competition for who gets the most 'support friends'. I feel ive made connections with several members, none of whom are 'support friends', it doesnt make it any less meaningful :) Hang in there!
Ok I will. Thanks Patrick and everyone else. I feel much better now.
Thanks hun just hang in there. For what it's worth, I've been there: Beautiful flowers take time to grow? I'm sure you understand that.
love ya
trick
Bunny you have a stream of supporters here..please start shareing with us and let us know how we can help you?
What is going on in your life and how can we help?
I found this site a year and a half ago and have made some great connections. I assure you, you will get the support here. This site has been a blessing for me.
as you can see they have added many many new areas to the site too many to list.
we will do our best to help when you need to talk.
No one else can speak the words on your lips
Drench yourself in words unspoken
Live your life with arms wide open
Today is where your book begins
The rest is still unwritten
-- Natasha Bedingfield