How do I get across to my parents I don't blame them and tha

How do I get across to my parents I don't blame them and that there constant comments about feeling guilty are only making it harder to be open about what I do? It's not there falt I am the way I am... Get out of your pity party and acctualy help for once instead of just making me feel worse

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Their feelings of guilt might come from wanting to help you but not quite knowing how, all while feeling like they should know because they're you parents. Maybe they think that telling you how your behavior makes them feel will deter you from it. Have you been clear about what you feel would be helpful coming from them?