How do u deal with this hate from a pregnant girlfriend or w

How do u deal with this hate from a pregnant girlfriend or wife , these hormones are crazy and now she doesn't even talk to me . No love towards me and this is killing me inside . Everyone says to give her space but is so hard , its like I have never met this girl

Shower your girl with kindness and love, she will come around, promise!

@CKarma easier said , she won’t answer my calls or txt and she’s been like this for about 3 weeks now . I hope she comes around quick because I really miss the loving and caring girl I met and our little angel

Bahaha. I shouldn't laugh, but I'm pregnant and this sounds so much like something my fiance would post! It's not uncommon for us pregnant gals to become distant or 'lose interest' temporarily. (Trust me, I've done my research too because I realized that I felt like I didn't love my fiance anymore). We just have all of our attention set on getting ready for baby and not feeling like a fat whale every single day. I like it when he acts as worried as I am; reading books about pregnancy/baby, buying him outfits, picking out blankets for the crib and etc.

This is our third child and we're still kickin. Don't take it to heart. I tell him I hate him almost every day over dripping faucets and dirty socks. You'll be fine :D

@Lindsay91 thanks for ur reply , hearing this from someone that’s going thru the same things as her makes me feel somewhat better , but u lady’s don’t know how hard it’s for us to take everything u dish out at us too . Thanks again

Don't worry as you said its just her hormones, pregnant woman tend to lose interest. Not all of course. I'm 4 months pregnant and I'm super clingy. But people are different

@just-one-more thanks for ur reply , I know it will get better but her rejection and no emocion towards me are killing me , I can really feel she hates me :frowning:

Just try to remember that she does not hate you, she's just very hormonal. Her body and mind are both going through a lot right now and this is just a reaction to the pregnancy, not you

@just-one-more I will keep that in mind , thanks again for ur help with this

Any time :) and congrats on the baby

@just-one-more :slight_smile: thank u so much , very excited first time dad

That is because you never have. She is pregnant. Especially your first pregnancy it is like you become this alien in your own body. 9 months you have to deal with it. Your child is growing inside her. She is doing everything for your child these 9 months. Take this time to prepare. This are about to change. It is no longer just about your love between each other. Supporting her is supporting your child. Hang in there and be compassionate. Dont judge her because she isnt the same. That isnt fair to her. Even after the pregnancy it takes time to come back in your own skin. Her heart is the same though. That is why you love her, right?

@SpoonfulOfHanii thanks for ur reply , yeah I love her very much and I’m not going anywhere , it’s just tought to see her change all of a sudden , like she doesn’t care at all for me . But her and our baby are the most important thing for me no matter how tought it gets

First off, pregnancy hormones are absolutely crazy. It's best to not even try to understand in my opinion. Just be there to support her when she wants/needs you. In my experience, I've had it both ways with my wife. Her first pregnancy, she couldn't get enough of me. Second pregnancy, she found me absolutely disgusting and didn't want to be in the same room as me. So you never really know. Just be there to support her.