how do u get through something so difficult I miss her more and more every day
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That means you really did love her. I am holding on to that satisfaction that my love was so deep, it couldn't be destroyed even with her horrible actions. Give it time and share what you feel. We're here for you.
yes love her more than anything in the world wish I new how to get her back
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I don't know your situation. Is there a way to fix things?
she says no we wer married 25yrs she said feelings went away so she moved out 1 mnth ago and now shes dating a guy that was a friend of ares
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@john1966 Can’t understand how anyone can turn off 25+ years of memories, family, love. Must be a “special” ability.
So sorry to hear that. She is an adult of course and has the right to her own decisions. So do you of course. It hurts... especially when you never have thought it could happen. I was fully committed to staying with my ex forever. It does get better though, your heart just needs time to process all this.
All your feelings are normal. Take your time processing them and taking care of yourself so you can get past this in the right ways. It is 100% ok to miss her. Maybe writing out how you feel may help you process some of it.
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If you don't have a therapist you should look into it has helped me.
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I understand me and my wife were married for 28 years. I'm the one crying she seems ok. She says she has already grieved the marriage and cried already.
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@kcdirtcop I don’t have any comforting words, just that I’m so sorry. Will need convincing to believe that time will fix this hurt. Maybe numb it some?
I'll take it
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@kcdirtcop How long has it been for you? My divorce should be finalized mid August.
My ex thought I was fine and actually celebrating life jumping from one bed to another. I was crying myself to sleep during that time and still do on some nights. It's like the other side always looks happy, but they are not. They just try to look like that so they don't crumble. Maybe that's true in your case and comforting for you.
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@Anas76 Except for seeing each other at the two hearings; I have not seeing him since he left first of January. Occasionally I wonder what he’s doing or what he’s thinking; but not as often. I think I miss more of what could’ve been or should’ve been and not much of what really was. Still hurts, the golden years as I had imagined them are shattered.
I'm in my 2nd month of separation still very raw.
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@kcdirtcop Any chance of reconciliation?
At this point slight
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@kcdirtcop We’re here for you, whatever may happen. There is no chance for us, so it’s just a matter of a few months before the divorce is final.