I need help with being strong, I'm weak and think some times that I can
do it and then fail... Is it mind set or just the person I I"m ?
Hello, I think that you need to work on self-confidence, start to look on your good features, becouse I am sure that you are very good in something.... than, start to spend time with people who have positive thought about you....
Thanks Jasmin.. It's been a problem of mine for years. I'ts hard to teach a old dog new tricks. I;m good at a lot of things I don't stick to one thing very long. But to be stong and say no is my problem.
I guess I can learn to just say no.......
First focus on you, don't mind what anybody else think, focus on your good ability, do exactly what you like and of course say no if you think that is for no, sorry for my bad english, hope that you understand me
Look, life is sooooo short, we spend on many 'stupid' things, mean we care about everything, we try to 'rich the stars' and if we can't we feel sad and upset.... I think that everybody need to look inside there oun mind, to look for people with positive energy and to have fun :-) lot of fun !!!!
You probably are strong, you just try and do everything at the same time and of course you fail, ANYONE would.
So list things in order of importance and do them one at a time and you will succeed. Have to say i get tangled once in a while till, that just happens. So write notes if you like anything you want to keep on your path. And you WILL suceed. Been there done that.
Ond task at a time, good luck
Thank you. It is very hard when some things plays on your mind all the time tobe strong. Great Ideas and tools to work with.
Tomorrow is payday, I have to be strong and say no to my self I'm not going to the casino and giving them all my hard earned money.
Thank you for your replys. Kiwi
Thomas Edison, inventor of the light bulb, once said that he knew "thousands of ways" of how not to build a light bulb. Instead of failure, you can think of unsuccessful attempts as succeeding in learning what doesn't work. The only true failure is not trying at all!
Very well put. Yes some times the brain over work's and blocks the things you can do. I guess my brain is in over drive...lol
I am sure you can change your mindset. Put your energies towards projects that have been put off due to gambling. Try a hobby. I have tried crafting and it has been very rewarding and it keeps my mind on something else and before I know it the day has gone by. Try reading the book "She Bets Her Life" by Mary Sojourner. It is her account of her gambling addiction. God Bless and have faith.