How do you know if two people in a relationship and you on of those people how do you know if you two are broken up, dose one of you have to say its over or what ?
Sometimes it is spoken and sometimes it's not. But I think there is usually that feeling in your gut, that lets you know that it just isn't working anymore even before the relationship ends in most cases.
You didn't say if you want to stay in the relationship or not.
Either way, this is a good time to validate all of the positive things that you bring to any relationship.