How do you know when it's time to cut someone out of your li

Mental Health Personality Disorders
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How do you know when it's time to cut someone out of your life?

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Think when they have done to much to hurt you all depends who it is what they have done and if you toyed but can't forgive them

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When they disappointed you so many times.

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When you seek out others to ask that very question.. you know its time. First i give them the opportunity to make things right.. speak to them about how you feel.. then if nothing changes.. walk away.

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Sometimes it's hard to know if it's all my fault or not because I know I'm difficult x

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@nataliepearson1989 the good thing about a good relationship you get accepted for faults

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My mother told me, "no one can tell you when you're done! When you've truly had enough YOU will know!" And I hated to admit it but she was right. For 6 years I allowed myself to be physically and emotionally abused by my 1st husband and after every beating, black eye, busted lip, friends and family would say, "why don't you leave?" My answer, "I love him, he said he won't do it again, we have kids! He might change!" But 1 day he beat me in front of our 3 year old and I KNEW I was done! When you're done, you'll know! (Hug)

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@jimisgirl sorry to hear someone did that to you. That’s a vile way to treat someone. Obviously you were completely justified to be ‘done’ with your ex because what he did was wrong and could never be justified. In my situation it’s not as clear, the other people haven’t attacked me physically or anything. Just hurt me emotionally, whether intentional or not x

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It really depends, if the person is mature to have a discussion of what happened and make sure it doesn't happen again, but if its beyond crossing the line then right then and there. Being back stabbed once is more than enough. God knows I have had more then one knife in my back

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My opinion is cut them out...of they want to work or chanve they'll let you know and beg to be let back in. If they are defensive or deny your feelings then they aren't worth your time.

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Thanks for your comments. It's two people who are friends with each other and one who I thought really cared about me. Lately when I talk to them both I usually end up crying because they just don't seem to understand/care how I feel. One of them says they do care .... But I don't feel like they do. It's all confusing

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Maybe just take some time away...

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@MamaR I only really communicate with them via text (as the one I thought was my best friend doesn’t want to talk to me face to face) do I just block their numbers?

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When the fire goes out it is time..

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Now I’m cutting them out (not like they’ve left me much choice as my friend just says nasty things and blames me for everything when I try and discuss it), I told my friend I loved him very much and us falling out has destroyed me. I told him I cry myself to sleep at night, that I adore him and I miss him. He was very emotionally cold in his response. So even if I wanted to repair the relationship he clearly doesn’t and doesn’t even like me anymore. So now I feel abandoned and I’m having to deal with my abandonment issues, my therapist said I’ve probably outran my feelings all my life and now this has triggered them all but he said its progress as I’m now ready to face up to all those years worth of repressed emotions. But it’s really hurting me and I’m very co-dependent. I just want to stop thinking about it and feeling worthless

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The sooner you learn this lesson the better. If you're like me I only want Real relationships in my life. Life is too short for superficial bullshit. You seem like a mature person. You'll survive.

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