So we separated and now he’s filed for divorce because i have no income but im not happy with this divorce. As mad as I am about him,chatting with other women i still love him and am finding it hard to let go… how are you able to be ok cuz im not…
So hes divorcing you because you have no money? How will you pay for things? There must be something else. You will still love each other, it doesn’t stop the moment you decide to divorce, its a process that will take a long time
He’s paying for the divorce because i don’t have the money im disabled and not able to work a job outside the home. We are divorcing because we cannot seem to figure things out. Our communication is horrible and he was texting other females on a regular and I just got tired of it. And when I said we should get a divorce, he was relieved and that broke me. I’m not sure I will ever recover from it. To be honest, i have no idea how I am going to support myself, and he does not care.
Him not caring makes me angry. What things are there to figure out? I honestly dont know what to say Lady, other than i know you are suffering and that the situation sucks
Im trying every day to learn how to move on, i wish it was easier. I can’t explain why I love so hard but I do and getting over someone I loved so deeply no matter how they treated me is still so very complicated for me.
It will be very hard, take your time and dont try to move on as fast as possible it will only be worse
I agree… its really hard coping with the feelings
I understand. Are you doing something in your days? Like, what is your routine? I journal a lot and it helps, just write what you’re thinking