how do you say 'stop loving them if they don't love you any more'? you didn't love them because they loved you in the first place.
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No, you might always love and care about them, but when the love isn't returned, the desire to show that love isn't quite as great as it once was.
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@CKarma Yes that makes more sense than just saying ‘stop loving them’. One should say ‘stop showing your love for them’. Perfectly sensible.
@CKarma Thank you for your response. It's been five years and while I don't tear up in public places any more, it's still bad. What's wrong with me that I can't stop? Why can't my mind heal faster? I am not even sure I want to heal, or that it's something to 'heal' from...