I am feeling kind of down right now. I need someone to help me. I need someone to be able to talk to...
hi samanthatloves
all u need to do is type whats on your mind and someone will respond im sure
so when u are ready hon
as always loving thoughts and positive vibes
hi my name is greg,
I've been in a very long, very difficult marriage, never understanding why i stayed in it. I just found out this week that it's due to co-dependency issues. My father was an alcoholic. They say you marry one of your parents. I think I married my father, although she is not an alcoholic, she has tremendous anger issues, and loses control.
the problem is that the rage inside of me has built way up now.
I want out of the marriage, but don't know how to do it. Part of the issue is that I think everyone is afraid of my sife, and doesn't really want to help me.
hi greg
yes we tend to marry our parents and continue the cycle we grew up with. and im sorry that u are dealing with anger that is/sounds abusive/challenging.
if u really want out is there somewhere for u to go that is safe? family friends etc.
have u made sure u are taking care of u?
as always loving thoughts and positive vibes
Domestic,
Thank you sooo much for that help!
Yes there are safe places to go.
Believe it or not, that is the FIRST time, in all these years, anyone has offered that suggestion. And I now feel like there is hope! And I absolutely HAVE to get out of this "now dangerous" situation.
Thank you!