My husband has went back to using cocaine. When we meet he had been clean for 2 years. After we met he had 2 relapse 2 years ago. I recently found out he has been doing lines almost on a daily base for the past month or so. I need help on how to approach him with thi matter. I want to help him get back on track.
Give him an ultimatum. Either he gets into treatment or you kick his *** out. There is no other option. Believe me I know. There's no such thing as recreational using for an addict. And doesn't it piss you off with all that money he's spending?
oh jen that sucks ...its a devil that cocaine ... i did it for 17 yrs and have just stopped ... it took a great guy i fell in love with to make me see .. he left ..and is still gone but im sober now and i really get it ... i have spent thousands on that drug im fed up with fairweather friends etc .... leave him and he might see the light ... being witha coke head is a nightmare .... two of my past boyfriends were dealers.... i cry thinking about it ....
Congrats London for your sobriety. It's so hard living with someone in recovery no matter how wonderful they are. You never really trust 100% again. Jen, stand your ground, you're worth more than that.
Thank you for your comment. I plan to talk to him about this Monday after Easter. This will be our 7 month old first Easter. I am a complete mess I am so scared on what is going to happen. But I know I have to do what is best for my kids. Thank you so much for your support.