i'm lonely in my life
i know more people
i have more friends
but i always feel lonely
feel my heart lonely
i start thinking about "i born waiting death"
how can i treat with my loneliness ???
this may not be much help, but how about getting a pet?
Like a cat or a dog. They are very affectionate and may help you from being lonely. something to take care of and nuture.
If i learned anything i learned that someone, when the time is right, will come your way....until then you have to keep your head up and enjoy your life.
Life is too short to not enjoy it! Laugh with your friends and family. The rest will eventually fall into place.
:)
I like PETS !!! They always love you unconditionally !!!
I think we all feel this way.
The stage, the loneliest place in the world !!!
You can be loved and in a crowded room with admires and love, but as you stand there feel so alone and isolated !
I wish many time I had someone to share with, talk to, etc...
But I think I am really learning,
YOU DO have to LOVE YOURSELF FIRST
and Learn to be HAPPY ALONE,
then and only then you can truly connect
and share and be with others.
People come and go in our lives for many reasons, but we always have ourselves in between...
does that make sense ???
Heatherfeathern:
i love pets so much
really that is a different something and i liked , may be make me happy and didn't feel alone
no one :
u are right i'm really need to start by myself u are right ,i'll do :D :D
Hi Gharam, I can totally and completely relate to how you are feeling. Each and every day is a challenge, a challenge to combat the loneliness. Some days are much easier than others, but creating purpose, keeping myself busy and really embracing the loneliness at times all helps. I really have learned to be alone and be happy, we need to try to embrace these moments and turn the feelings of emptiness to that of fulfillment. If I have long days of working in front of the computer, then I will break up my day by going for a nice long walk, spending a bit of time in a cafe around people, catching up with friends on the phone. Also, this site really makes me feel so happy and fulfilled in those really lonely moments.
I totally agree with Heather, getting a pet is a fantastic idea. I will be getting a dog as soon as I am back from my travels and feeling a bit more settled. Although I have to move to a pet-friendly building first, which I am willing to do. I love dogs so much. Even walking around town and petting a dog here and there gives me so much happiness.
I also agree with No One in that we have to find true inner happiness and fulfillment before attracting the right person into our lives, but that being said/written, there really can be a certain void that only that special someone can fulfill. I feel so happy and fulfilled most of the time, but I am beyond ready to meet that right person, the person to share my life with. I am not doing it because I am lonely, but because I am ready. I know that you will find that right person so soon.
I am praying for you and sending you many well wishes.
Keep the FAITH !!!! We care too you know so great start !!! ;-)
There's a nice Essay by M. Montaigne "On Solitude". You should not replace yourself for anyone or anything. When you start to know yourself better you will be able to know others better. Be friend of yourself and you will no longer be alone.