Hi everyone my husband all these years didn’t like when I said I want friends a male gay or non gay yes I have a best friend female. all these years I kept telling him. I want friends and the reason why I say male friends is because I want to change it up it was always female friends I made never guy friends. so my husband was like I don’t rust the other person I said you would trust me to know if they wanted sex I would not talk to those people. im so confused to why all these years no to friends meaning guy friends female he was ok with. so I finally had one last final conversation with him this year 2024 July and he was like ok to it I said all these years and now your ok with it. He’s like I see how sad you are and lonely. now my family leaves three hours away and so does my best friend. I have no noe where I live while he works. so im confused to now why all sudden this serious and final coconversation he said ok to and not years before. when I mean final conversation meaning to him I said that so he understands how serious it is and not gunna repeat my self to him about this so he needs to change I told him. he’s ok with it and im happy he is. just confused to why now he’s ok now when I bring it up now he isn’t upset at all
I think he’s just come to understanding that people won’t take you away from him, ruining your marriage. Maybe he’s just grown out of his jealous personality and he gives you a chance to make new friends.
I dont understand what you wrote but your husband cant stop you from being friends with whoever you want, its not his decision and it’s a red flag imo
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