I am depressed anxious and have ADHD my wife of 16 years blames me for all the wrongs that have happened in this marriage. I have not had a drink in 25 years because I am alcoholic , but that might change. life sucks
I am sorry you have to deal with that. It is painful when all the blame is placed on one person, when to have issues in a relationship you need two people to create and sustain the issues. Stay strong, and true to yourself, 25 years is something to be proud about!
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