I am feeling vulnerable today. I crave physical attention fr

I am feeling vulnerable today. I crave physical attention from my husband and he is away. So I turn to other men for emotional attention.. I feel like I am a no good, rotten person. I know I have a problem. It's not just the sex, it's the reassurance and affection that comes with it. How do I stop looking for attention and start believing in myself? I feel so lost...

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Look, you are a normal human being and you have needs like everyone else. And if the owner doesn't give the cat food, it will start looking for food somewhere else.

Instead of resorting to cheating though, i would make firm decisions. Talk to your husband, and say your needs are not being satisfied, if he is unwilling to satisfy you. Leave him,divorce and find another relationship where you are being satisfied accordingly. But that's really a last resort, try marriage counselling first.