I am new to the site and thought I should introduce myself and explain why I joined. I am a 27 year old male who is just now finding out and coming to terms with my sexuality. I have never not been in a relationship so I have never really had time to explore the way I feel toward other men. I am currently engaged to a woman I love dearly and that is where the problem resides. I so desperately want to explore these feelings toward men but I do not want to lose or hurt my future wife. Is there a good way to go about talking to her about this and maybe getting her to allow me to explore a little so I don't live the rest of my life regretting that I didn't get to try the things I'd like to try. Any advice is greatly appreciated.
I think possibly just bringing up the topic to her, and if she loves you the way you love her then she should understand. I can understand your worry about losing her, but if you don't know exactly how you feel toward men then you never really know if it is right. I don't have much experience on this, but I think being honest with her will be a step in the right direction. I would possibly suggest to see how she would feel with a threesome, with another man? That could help you, and see how she feels about it.
I didnt build up the courage to admit to my wife 20 years, if i had the chance to be Honest and let her choose would have been better. You Like me are somewhat selfish be honest and let her decide todya standards are more accepting good luck stay in touch
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