I am so frustrated. I'm 39 and I have not had a girlfriend since 2005. That's ten years. Do I just give up? I just can't seem to do anything right with a woman. I'm dying inside. I don't want to single anymore.
Its okay....you will find somebody when times ready.. 10 yrs nothing.. some people wait forever.. Its better to be single than ended up with wrong person and get hurt... I ruined my 2 yrs life with my narc ex.. now I regret wish I could know him better before jumped into relationship or wish I could run the hell away from him when we first met.. anyway glad he is gone.. even I feeling lonley and having some traumas.. but I know its better that way, no one after all deserve to be treated bad .. and I am sure fine.. I say just open your heart, let others come in.. they need to know u... as long as if you care too much about the fact
being lonely or not having any gf..
My heart is open. I try to say yes to life every chance I get. I sure there are lots of people who live out there lives with no romance and leave the earth without having know what that feels like. I don't know how to accept that and be ok with it.
Being open is a great first step. I understand the frustration. I often think I am a dang good woman, how am I single yet other women treat men like trash & have someone that worships them. Its a conundrum to me.