I don't know if self harm means cutting or killing yourself but i have an issue i need to talk about, i hate myself for having no self control. I'm 21 and my parents still treat me like I'm 12 i have no freedom nothing. Don't get me wrong i love my parents but sometimes I just can't take it, last month he took all of my devices because he was angry so when I get extremely angry I always need to do something to relief me, so I bite myself soooooo hard that it left a nasty scar and it hurted afterwards I don't want to hurt myself anymore... how do u guys handle the pain or the anger ?
Ps my parents are extremely severe and my father was raised in the army so he doesn't know how to love and handle a family probably plus he has some serious anger issues, I know I have to be patient but I just can't do it anymore. Peace xx
I also struggle with cutting as well if you like to talk about it im always hear
I don't know why, but i just can't bring myself to talk about it
It is and always will be hard to talk about it. When i talk about my situation it physically hurts me because I have terrible anxiety. I don't know how to get relief from the pain and anger I feel often but I try and procrastinate so maybe my anger will die down and pass so I will not do something stupid. If you need someone to listen or to give you some tips feel free to contact me anytime of the day or night i will be there for you 24/7. Stay strong and push on!
Thank you so much guys, I really need to get through this I don't wand for my future kids to feel what I'm feeling with my dad. Give me time I'll push myself to talk about it. Thanks again!
We all hear listening you just have to feel comfortable enough to talk tp us