so the other night I said some really mean things about my mil who lives w us and idk if she heard me but she is only 1 room away so she probably did and weve all been under alot of stress around here but I'm too nervous to go say sorry so I told my husband to go tell her I'm under alot of stress and I didnt mean to hurt anyones feelings but he said hes not going to he said I should just pretend it didnt happen but I feel really bad about it so Idk what to do.
Hi Classychic13, I can understand your predicament. Since she is your husband's mother, then I think that his advice is viable. You can feel things out by opening up to her and mentioning how you haven't totally been yourself and you've really been under so much stress and pressure. As well, if she's acting off, then you'll know that she heard you, and at that time you can ask if there's anything wrong.