I feel alone really alone, my husband is destroying me little by little. This week he finally admitted that he has somebody. He had the ball to ask me if I wanted to know. How somebody that says he cares does that. He left Thursday night for work and hasnt comeback or even call to check on the kids that hurts even more my hearts is breaking it hurts to much I dont want to do anything , and my mother just keeps getting in my face that I have to keep moving forward but how. I have to find a place to live but I cant because I don't even have job I just don't know what to do I am falling into a depression and I do not see a way out
Izzy29,
I am sorry to hear you're going through this. It is a tough situation and you're probably in shock right now. At least you know now but your husband hasn't handled it at all well and you're the one left with the pieces to pick up.
Please try to take it one moment at a time. Your brain will be racing but the answers won't be there yet. You need to focus on you, at your own pace, not on your husband. Your mother means well but she needs to know if her advice is putting pressure on you. Maybe you can say you need her love and non-judgmental listening right now.
There are many people here who will support you, as well as in the 'Infidelity' group.
Peace to you.
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Thanks