I feel frustrated lonely and betrayed

Mental Health Personality Disorders
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I feel frustrated lonely and betrayed

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I honestly don't know what to do any more. I married my husband even though he's cheated on me walked out on me while pregnant and with a brand new child. Still even now he sends me mixed messages and he contacts me when it's fitting of him, when he's done getting the answer he needs then it's back to we only talk when he wants to. I am tired of feeling his rejection and tired of feeling like it's all his call and I'm frustrated as can be beyond words I pray I try to talk to friends I just feel like I'm in a circle he was once my best friend we have a beautiful daughter this just isn't how I imagined my life would be and I don't knkw how to handle this

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@Kellymae I know what you r saying…
My wife left me and our 4 children… blindsided me and I feel the same as u… I was a true belive in my vows and divorce was never an option… just like you… lost… this was a team agreement to start a family… I think we need to focus on ourselves and children, as hard as it is to say… it’s been keeping me preoccupied learning to live this new life… but then again I guess I’m blind leading the blind here… so I guess I’m saying your not alone… hang in there and together in this forum we can walk down this path sharing thoughts and helping each other… u game

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My goodness. I hope your husband gets a dose of reality before he loses everything he's had with you.

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Love makes us blind to the reality of our situation, until it knocks us down hard. It's time you wake up and see that he is a joke. Stop turning yourself into a fool for someone who has never deserved your time. Best friends never leave their buddy hanging like that, so stop deluding yourself and place that heart somewhere it belongs.

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From Joe Goldberg

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Hi Kelly
I understand what your felling and going through. I am handicap and my wife cheated and walk out on me with everything. The car the money and she only calls if she want to talk or needs to let go on someone. You being used. This is his way of controlling you and keeping you were he wants you.
By doing this he knows you will not get on with your life and like most that are this way it makes him feel powerful. Don't let him do this to you anymore. He does not know how to love. So he plays on the love you have for him. This make him feel like he has more power and he is above you.

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Thank you all very much. I So glad I found this website to hear it from outside views it helps a lot