I feel like I dont like my boyfriend.
I am not very attracted to him when he acts nerdy
I'm scared I'm in denial
I'm scared I'm going to be one of those lesbians that dated men then realized they didn't like it
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Omg girl that's exactly how i feel !! Gosh, it's like you've never actually loved guys and you start trying to find any evidence of that in the past ! I have the same fear !! Wake up one day and think "well, i used to be straight and now i just realise men suck !!" No, i think maybe if your boyfriend doesn't attract you that much anymore it must be because of this obsession. Questionning everything 24/7 makes your real attraction feel false and the false one feel true...
To me it sounds like your boyfriend is not the right one. Sometimes we have to dig a little deeper to find what we are looking for. My 30 year old married sister said she was never properly in love or attracted to the guys she dated in her teens and early twenties until she met her husband.
@luxury im feeling like should told to everyone that i am g but i dont want and my problem its not my gf is i can t feel the buzz around girls is like 100 times harder to get excited and this is making me crazy :(((( is hard for me to my mind tell me that i like that girl and then if i see a guy i react like if i feel something ;((( i dont want this :((( but its really making me believe that i am g