I feel so crappy today. A guy I like said that even a small risk of contracting this was more risk than he wanted to take. I respect he decision, but it's the first time I've ever told anyone and they reacted like that. I feel so defective.
Remember God loves you. Things happened and it doesn't have to define who you are!!!
Im sorry you had to deal with that. Theres gonna be the demons that break you, but not everyone is the devil! If you met someone and their reply is something like that when..well they are not worth any effort. We have caught this, we shouldnt be made to pick second best or feel so worthless by this. SHINE LIKE THE STAR YOU ARE - (Bet hes crap in bed anyways) :P Big hugs stay strong
I'm so afraid of this but hopefully it will get better for yu! For both of us! He probably wasn't worth it tho!!
His loss! If you meant more to him you would be worth it and he would be more understanding.
Thank you all. I was feeling really broken earlier today, but each time it brings me down, I just get stronger when I stand back up. Thanks for the support <3
I wouldn't feel defective because he said no to you! You are not defective, youre 100% working order and having herpes doesnt change that about you at all (: If he said no he said no true thats his decision and its not gonna stop you feeling crappy but forget his ***, you deserve someone who wants you no matter what and realises, herpes jsut aint that big of a deal. You deserves someone who loves you and that when they hear the word herpes when you tell them they shrug it off, smile and hug you and tell you they love you no matter what (: Dont settle for anything less than the best! (I know I didn't, I'm clean but my partner has herpes and well shes the absolute best and I will never let her feel anything less because I'm the luckiest lady in the world to have her!) And as she (swordthorn) said, he was probably crap in bed anyways ;)
Know how u feel hazel eyes. Happened to me this week too. I just don't think I'll try again as I don't think anyone will accept me cos I don't think I would. Just don't how bad is this herpes 2?