I found out my sister has relapsed (opiates possibly along with other things). My dad took her to our local behavioral treatment center and she signed herself out after only a couple hours. My dad kicked her and her boyfriend who is also an addict out of his apartment ( I fully support my father's decision, he has enabled/ tolerated them much longer than I ever could have). My dad took my nephew(who also lives with my dad) to his ex wife's house as he needs to work during the day. The issue I have is the ex-wifes house is not a good place for my nephew to be in. I live 300 miles away and am not sure of what I should do. My dad forbid me to tell my mother about any of this, my mother has been estranged from us on and off throughout the years. I am at a loss. I of course am worried about my sister but I am even more concerned for my nephew. Any advice, sage wisdom or suggestions are greatly appreciated.
is it worse for your nephew to be with the ex-wife or the current situation? its so hard when we aren't there to control it.. Positive vibes to you! xo<3
Thanks! More information is coming to light throughout the day (none good unfortunately). I think I was pretty overwhelmed this morning and couldn't focus on the bigger picture. His safety and well being needs to be the priority not hurt feelings. I appreciate the positive vibes, I am sending them right back to you!