I freaking hate my husband's cousins. Is this normal or is i

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I freaking hate my husband's cousins. Is this normal or is it just me? At the moment, we live in different houses because of work reasons. And today, I got home and found my husband and his girl cousin sleeping in OUR bedroom, our bed, my pillows, my blanket. I know they're blood related but shouldnt she atleast think of "decency" and respect? It pisses me off to know that my stuff are all in there and last week I was wondering why my bath stuff are almost half a bottle when I just bought it and I rarely use it. My husband never mentioned this to me, not once
cos he knows how I feel about his cousins. They are disrespectful, noisy and uncivilized. Is it just me experiencing this? Am I over reacting? Cos last time I checked, "I AM THE WIFE"

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Is it an issue of family enmeshment, or is his family culture to be close with cousins like that? What does the other "married into the family" think about the closeness?