I have a question,
Ask away, I will try and help
I really want kids someday and people keep telling me it's impossible
I had cerebral palsy as a child, but you would almost never know it now. Nothing is impossible with the right support . I was told as a kid i would never amount to anything and I could not walk until age 4. I have a 3.5 GPA in college right now. I have to go to tutoring, but it is possible to achieve goals. I cant hold a child, so I have to go through a surrogate it I ever wanted to have one, so you have options
My mom told the doctor one day that if I were to have kids that I would have to give them up for adoption because I wouldn't be able to take care of them
Your mother is not being very supportive then. My mother had to make me study and she taught me to never give up or lean on my disability. Your mom doesn't know what you can do. Only you do. If you are site you want to try and have children, then go for it. If you are mentally capable enough, then you can do it. I had dreams of becoming a tornado chat, but I was in a bad car accident two years ago and sustained injuries that will never fully heal. I may not be able to follow my dream, but I will become successful at something. Please, don't give up hope. I often wonder why God made it to where I was strong enough to walk and others can't. I will find out one day. I had two neck fractures and again, extremely lucky to be able to walk still. I am in pain every day, but you and I have to conquer life and find out why we are here. I am proof that miracles happen all the time
@oviedocheer tornado chaser, sorry
My mom won't even talk to me about sex
If you need to, you can talk to a counselor or therapist about it. They can also help you to determine if you can do this. You can even learn about it on youtube if you would like. Just search for anything about sexual education. If you believe you're mentality is there and you can think like your actual age, then they can be a great support system for you. I know a girl who had the mind of a 13 yr old, but is in her early 20's. So, she couldn't, but I'm not sure how you are in that department. There are many different levels of cerebral palsy. I was diagnosed with acute CP as a toddler.
Is it okay that I masturbate sometimes
Yes, it is perfectly natural for a woman to do this. Same as in males
Sometimes I'm afraid I will get caught
I was caught by my mother when I was in my later teenage years. I'm 33 now and she didn't like it, but she knew it would happen eventually. I then, only did it at night, when my parents were asleep. If your family can't understand that, then a therapist may need to be consulted about it. This is a sensitive topic to a lot of parents
So sorry we are having this conversation
It's ok, don't be ashamed of it. I am going to love answering these questions, I'd I have a little girl one day. ..or, a little boy. Parents just need to be more open. My mom wasn't either and we still don't really talk about it, but it's something you can learn about. I supported you...:)
I don't know what anything means in sex, orgasm, or cum
I was molested as a ten, so I actually have issues mentally about having it, but it is very enjoyable at times. I am engaged and that is something I deal with all the time. Just make sure that it is work the right person and got don't rush it. An organ is when you climax when you masterbate. The cum is the substance that comes out with the orgasm. You will know if it happens. I can't make myself do it, but my fiance does. Sex is something that should be sacred and between partners that really deeply care for each other.
@lindseylovesjoe, can you please help me understand it
Everything
No cause my mom will not talk to me about it