I have a so called friend who knew I was struggling because

I have a so called friend who knew I was struggling because of my involvement with a narcissist. I told her I was depressed. She told me I was a twit. That didn't help. I don't talk to her much anymore.

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You need people that will listen and support you we are all here for you. xx

Almost no one can understand narc abuse unless they have experience it, particularly covert narc excuse. I have given up sharing unless I know they have been thru it. Even therapists. Its what makes it so isolating.

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@citizenm does abusive father count as narc?

He was a pastor in the real world,but inside the house he was a demon...

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My ex was a pastor to but once he got home was evil.

@Jennipain sounds like we lived similar experiences,sorry it happened to you :frowning:

when I mention whats going on with me.... I'm told either "they don't want to hear it" or "I (me personally) need counseling".
so I stop talking to them and when they ask how I'm doing I just say ok and that's it.

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@hurtingheart2 You can talk to us, we care my friend xo

like jennipain said we are all hear for you. we completely understand, we'll listen and help as much as we can.

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Look were are girlfriends talking and helping each other :)

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@LonelyWarrior31 We like having you here too.

:)

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I can't either lol but I understand the word lol

Those people are toxic. Try you best to stay away from them.

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