I have come to accept that forgiveness is not about the other people but about forgiving your own humanity for trusting, believing and loving the wrong person. I am not at fault for having faith in those who hurt, betray and abandon me with no care. I love hard because that's who I am and I'm not going to allow my self to become hardened and closed off to those who deserve it. I forgive myself and that's what forgiveness means to me. A narc would love to see you fail and that's the last piece of control they have. Abuse hurts so don't be too hard on yourself. Forgive you..you are a target because you love so hard. I refuse to loss hope. one day at a time.
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Sometimes we can be captured in the unforgiveness cage and it's not a good place to be in...we can free ourselves and move on...but this is not easy...it's very difficult! Thanks for sharing this insightful post...
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