I was not told by anyone that they had it and i have a good idea where i got it from. I am unable to date anyone without telling them because i would hate for someone to keep it from me. I feel like im not worth it to anyone anymore. It is so hard to date if i cant even find someone that has the same thing i do. It is a concern and some people dont care if i have it and thats great but others are like "i cant date you if you have an std"
Hi Sunshinegirl, I think that those who tell you that they can't date you are doing you a big favor because they are not worthy of you. You deserve the best and a man who loves you, will love all of you. One of my friends, who has herpes, just got married. She told her husband early on in their relationship and he said that he loves her for all that she is and he doesn't care about the herpes. He told her that they would work through it together; that's love. And, I know that's what you will have. Please know that I am here for you and here to help you through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
thanks so much...that means alot
Of course, please know that I am here for you and here to help.