I have to say the infidelity posts on here are more heart shattering than the divorce posts. I, being on both ends would honestly much rather be going through a divorce than that constant paranoia, daily battles, & the feeling of being inadequate. Bless you all.
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Sometimes the idea of running away from it all sounds so tempting! I used to say I wouldn't stay if he cheated, I used to think that a divorced woman was so strong to leave and start over. Now I see, not always the case. Funny how experience can change your perspective so much. I appreciate your honestly, and I too can't live like that. Hopefully, we are one of the cases that end up stronger.
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@Jenn7814
Well said. I sit here sometimes and think I should of just let him go, I would probably be happier already. But no I wouldn’t be. There’s a reason why I stayed and we are working things out. I as well hope to be that couple Jenn.
And I hope that if he ever even thinks about doing this again, I will be strong enough to run, really really fast!
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Wow! That little comment made my heart feel better. I always wanted to yell that of course I am paranoid, and insecure after 4 affairs.
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