I joined today and the reason I joined is because I am at the point of not knowing what to do. My brother is addicted to meth and he has had months in his life where he has been in recovery and then months where he relapses and all the progress he made during recovery is gone and right now he is the worst that I have seen him in years and I just want him to remember how good he felt and how good his life was when he was in recovery and he just doesn't even remember. I dont even recognize him anymore and it breaks my heart, my family and I just dont know what to do for him anymore because he doesn't want the help that we have offered.
Sometimes the only thing to do is allow them to fall down in the hole they have dug and hope beyond hope that this time they will fall hard enough for them to realize, Wow, I need help. Hugs!