I just found out my girlfriend has HSV2, we've been dating about five months now. We've had a lot of unprotected sex in that time. I haven't been showing any symptoms yet. But, I'm pretty upset. I know herpes is very common but I'm not sure what I should do. I care for her deeply. I don't know what I should do until I find out if o have it too.
I dated a man for 6 years and he was negative. However, I told him from the start I had it. He and I always protected ourselves and it was great. It can work. But if she knew and didn't tell you, that my friend is a deal breaker in my book. It the reason I left my fiancé, who gave it to me. He betrayed me and put my life at risk. I couldn't recover from that. Good luck. Get tested ASAP and pray you are clean and if you are, protect yourself. people lie. it's a cold world of people out there. be well.
If she kept it from you shame on her. Go get tested before you mind-F yourself. If all is well, be thankful and do right moving forward. you can't be too trusting of people anymore.