I just wish it would even out

i dont know where it got all jacked up. But at times i feel so ugly like who would want me. then i feel so pretty at times but then i also am self concious the same time where i wont go anywhere where someone might try to hit on me. its kinda sabotagey because if a guy talks to me when im looking rough like just out of work or something im like o he would prolly just want to be with anyone. so its no win case for me :(

Hi Lynn_88, something that has helped me with my self-esteem over the years is making a list of all of my positives and reading over it time and time again, then when I need a little pep up. Also, I add to this list and it really helps to boost my self-esteem.