Hello everyone I’m George I lost both of my parents and it has been really hard on me and I just feel like I’m alone and I have no one to talk to it just so hard without your parents here my mom passed away with dementia and my dad passed away with kidney and heart failure has anyone else lost a someone before.
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Im sorry i have also lost my parent and sibling. Im here to support you if you need. I have been through things in the past 4 years so i know how the emotional road goes. Hugs to you today!!!
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Hi George, I’ve been an orphan for quite a while now. My mum died of cancer when I was 20. That was really bad timing because I was just coming out of the teenage-rebellious phase and getting to know her as a real human being. It took quite a few years for all that to subside to the background noise level, and there were still memories that could trigger tears.
My dad died much later, when I was married and well-established. He was suffering from advanced Parkinson’s disease, so in many ways it was a good thing, and anyway he was over 90 by then.
People come and people go in life. Sometimes you’re sad and sometimes you’re glad, but life goes on regardless. Hang in there.
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I lost my dad at the end of April. He fell from a ladder in the garage. He was 82, had no business on a ladder. I am still very angry all he had to do was ask. But I believe it was a blessing. He was declining so quickly both physically and mentally. He was recently diagnosed with onset of alzheimers and he was very depressed about that. He was getting angry because both his mind and body were failing. I believe he was in physical pain but souls say anything. I wish I had more time, more answers, just more time with him. So I’m trying to be there for my mom and repair that relationship before I loose her. They were married 57 years.
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I’m so sorry to hear about your losses, George. My heart goes out to you. Losing our loved ones is very hard, and the impact of such a loss is deep. It’s important to let yourself go through the process and give yourself as much time as you need. Please know that you’re not alone here. I lost my dad 7yrs ago and it still hurts. Although I have a supportive husband, I went through a tough time remembering all the good times and those last few days with my dad in the hospital. I’d suggest that you talk to a grief counselor. Please know that I said a prayer for you, and I hope that God will provide the comfort and strength you need in the days ahead. You might want to check out the book: When You Lose Someone You Love by Richard Exley. Please take good care of yourself, friend. Stay strong.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my dad 5 years ago and I emotionally lost my mom after that too. Our family totally departed after my dad was gone.
My mom hurt me in different ways the pain feels so deep
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