I met a guy in a dating app. After a brief introduction he asked my number and I gave them (I don't have trouble giving out my number because I have two numbers I use and what I gave him is not my main number). We quickly hit it off. As a background, I never dated before and I have trouble getting close to people and telling things even to my friends. I'm comfortable with chatting with strangers, but I always reject it if they try to call and make an excuse on why I can't answer their calls. But with this one, I don't even think to reject his call, I even agree to a video call, something I hate the most to do even with my friends.
He asked me to be his gf after a week of constant talking and texting with each other. I said yes, but I can't help looking for any red flags despite him keep reassuring me that he chose me for who I am and being so understanding about all the concerns I voiced at him. He keep saying that as long as we have good communication and we can talk it out together he doesn't mind all my flaws. All because there's a whisper in the back of my mind that he must have ulterior motive for being so understanding and kind to me. but at the same time I feel comfortable with him to the point that I feel like I can tell him everything. It's scary because I never feel this way, I never feel this comfortable with someone I haven't even met in real life. I feel like this is too good to be true. My current suspicion is because I have higher salary than him. Am I right feeling this way?
Are you video calling? Then good go with it if you aren't video calling it might not be real. If he asks for money avoid that but if you are enjoying the conversation and you are getting something out of it it's fine.
@catcondo yes we’re sometimes video calling, but it’s not that often. But we do call or text everyday. I’m not going to give him any if he asks for money directly. I’m kinda worried if we meet up though. I tried asking him if we can meet up since we’ve quite far but still within reach and he kept saying he didn’t have enough money yet to go. I never offered to use my money to facilitate him, but I’m afraid if we do manage to meet I will be guilt-tripping to pay for the expenses during the date? I’m still not sure if he’s that kind of guy or if he’s really sincere and won’t let me pay