I am addicted to gambling and I need help. I have made a huge mistake and I’m ready to change and find someone to talk to. But I’m not ready to come clean to my husband and I need some to talk to who understands that’s. I know I need to be honest but I’m also not to the point of actually going to meeting in person and it’s going to sound stupid but I’m embarrassed. Anyone to talk to please.
Hi…you absolutely need to tell your husband as soon as possible. counselling will definitely help. But we can talk…why is it do you think you turn to gambling?
I know I have to tell my husband and I will I’m just not ready to tell him. I started to gamble years ago for fun and then I won some money. Years ago I told him I gambled and did stop for a long while and even excluded myself. Since then I found a terrible way around the exclusion, which I’m very ashamed of, and gambled again to try to win money to help with life. And I know that’s not the answer and never works out. I haven’t told my husband that I gambled again or how I got around it. He would definitely leave me. I will tell him in time.
oh really? was it a lot of money this time? perhaps you could work through things…
It wasn’t tons of money. It is a different reason why he will leave me. It’s how I got around the self exclusion and was able to gamble.
Hi friend,
I’m really sorry you’re going through this, and I’m glad you’re reaching out for help. It’s a crucial first step in making positive changes. Here on our platform, you’ll find support groups and forums where people who’ve faced similar challenges can offer understanding and advice. Consider connecting with a therapist who specializes in gambling addiction; many offer online or phone sessions, which might feel more comfortable for you right now. Identifying and avoiding triggers that lead to gambling, and finding new activities to fill your time, can also help. When you’re ready to talk to your husband, we can provide resources to help you prepare for that conversation. Remember, you’re not alone, and we’re here to support you every step of the way. With love, SG