I need some advice

I'm not really sure how to help my husband. He is an on and off user of heroin for about 9 years. I would defiently describe him as a heavey user. We dated for about a year and we married recently. In the beginning he was doing really well, he wasnt using and was staying clean. A few months down the line i started to notice changes and realized he was using. I've never used heroin and i've never even taken a perscription pain killer. It's hard for me to relate and get on his level and help him. He's 28 and he's been to 14 different rehabs, he also gets the pellet, which if you don't know is basically like a suboxone that they cut your arm open in the back and push it in. It blocks opiates for 2 months, but my husband knows when it runs out (which is normally before the 2 months is over) and he starts using again. I am 3 months pregnant and i feel like im at the end of my ropes with him. I'm not sure how to help him stop. I want him to be a part of my life and DEFIENTLY a part of our childs life. I'm scared every moment of the day that if will be his last day and that i might lose him. I give him all the support i can. I'm just not sure what i can do for him anymore. Can someone please help me

Hi Nicolexx, Welcome to SupportGroups.com . I am sorry to hear about your husband. He has to be willing to get help for himself. I see where he has done rehab. Has he ever followed that up with going to NA - http://www.na.org/ meetings? For you, have you ever gone to Alanon http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/ and/or Naranon http://www.nar-anon.org/ ? If not, then I suggest you check those groups out for yourself. They are for loved ones of alcoholics and addicts. You may get some more ideas of what to do. We also have a group for families and friends of alcoholics/addicts on the site here http://friends-and-family-of-addicts.supportgroups.com/ . Keep sharing with us and letting us know how you are doing. We are here for you. ((((hugs))))