I posted last night and got little help will someone that is living the coming out process please talk to me. I really need to know if it was me or if my ex is gay bi or just sexualy twisted. I cant get out of bed I need help.
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I hear you, friend. I don't have the same experience so can't give you the answer you are looking for, but if you wish to talk to me, I'm here.
I had a husband for many years that wouldn't tuch me. Im a pretty ooen sexul person and if I tried and thing that wasnt strictly vanilla he would shut me down and call me selfish. His new wife just contacted me after finding years of a hidden life style. Why couldn't he have shared that with me. After years I made peace with deciding he just wasn't in to sex. Now I find out he is very into it just not with me. I have had body image problem s for years and now it's worse. I want to talk to him so bad but not onlu does he now hate me he lies and I know he wouldn't be honest.
But you're divorced now. I really understand feeling that you desperately want the answers to those questions - but I don't think he has the answers you need. In the end, those are going to have to come from YOU.
I'm sorry about your body image problems. Are you taking steps to deal with them? Perhaps with therapy, and/or exercise if that's appropriate for you? Life is too short to spend years being uncomfortable with your own body!
I have a boyfriend now that a least tells me he loves my body but my ex did a job on me. I just wsnt to understand.
I don't know that I could have gone as deep into his life style as he is but why wouldn't he a least give me the chance to make that decision. I bagged him to do anything to spice it up. Or just have sex at all.
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