I recently had a really good conversation with my father- so this is more of a rant/vent I guess.
I am going through the divorce process right now, and my dad helped me get the courage to leave and start the process. However, before that he threatened to kick me out of the house, not pay for my college, etc (when that has been agreed upon for many years). Yesterday on the phone he said that he was sorry for everything that happened and that felt alone. It was very genuine and I appreciated it.
However he said he did not remember ever threatening to kick me out of the house, but it very much did happen and even my siblings remember it. I guess I'm just frustrated by my dad and mom's ability to "forget" major things that happened that effected everyone else but them. Why do parents do this? So aggravating.