I think It has started

I worry for my wife as her concerns deepen for her fathers condition

It is a difficult situation. We have to pray that things will settle down and life will become easier. Wishing you the best. God bless you.

do check in your area for alzheimers support groups. they are spouses, children, friends, caregivers and it helps to talk with people in your position. daddy had alzheimers, it also helps to hear from fellow alzhiemers caregivers the different stages their loved ones are at. this site cant be helpful but nothing like face to face meetings with others in your current circumstances...available for questions or concerns, i can pass on what i learned about daddys condition and his final days as you actually loose the person before their death. very heart breaking