I want to call my husband, tell him j love him and don't wan

Mental Health Depression & Mood Disorders
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I want to call my husband, tell him j love him and don't want this divorce. We have both been in other relationships since then, and on bad terms. Is it a waste of time?

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What do you think will happen?

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@Broadsided my heart will be shattered

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I believe so strongly in the sanctity and honor of MARRIAGE and I think if you reach out to him he is either going to respond in one of two ways: either he will embrace the idea of re-union with you (which is what I hope), or he will be like my last husband and tell you to "stop groveling because it makes you look pathetic" (which is what I hope he does not say to you).....GOOD LUCK. KNOW THAT AT LEAST YOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE THIS BETTER.......I think that is admirable of you and makes you a wonderful person.

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If that is how you feel you should let him know. Being honest and going after what you want is never a waste of time. He will either want you back or you will know he doesn't. Either way, you will know.

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I don't know if I'm strong enough to handle him saying no. I wish so badly that this was just a nightmare.

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I almost want someone else to call him for me

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There's no shame in admitting that you want your marriage to work. Worst case scenario,you call him and he acts like a ****. That makes him look bad. It just shows that you care for him, the man you married. You can't control how he reacts,but you can control how you do. You can atleast say that you tried to save the marriage. I wish you luck either way. :) Just remember,if he does act like a ****,then there is always another guy out there that would love to make you smile.

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I just can't do it.

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Think it through before you proceed, if you talk here long enough this feeling may pass.

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Hopefully my feelings will change. It is best I don't contact him I'm sure.

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@Megangabrielle - very wise, keep your best interests at heart always.

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Ugh!! Why!!! My life is such a disaster!!! And i can't help but blame him!! He knows how fragile I am and what a mess I am!! He was my best friend, my soul mate!! How did this happen?!?!!! I just want to completely break down

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Yeah I'm just not going to contact him at all. It's better off, I just had a weak moment.

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And yeah I am angry and selfish. I'm a lot like Juliette Barnes off the show Nashville. And I couldn't do any of those things. And we have both been with too many other people for it not to be awkward.