I was seeing this guy he's older than me, im 19 he's 23. I fell fo him for a year we was casually seeing each other chilling, doing stuff ... I grew balls and told him how I feel , I told him " I don't want to fall ay harder for you and think we are something more to what we are". He replied saying " what can you think of this , idk what you want to hear, idk how to answer this, I don't have a girlfriend if that's what your asking, you aint my gf, etc etc ". Leaving me crushed, to the point where I just looked up and smiled with watery eyes. He says he still wants to see me what do I do? I love him, from the first time we met, he was different to the rest, we was casually linking / doing stuff for like a year or so, and yeah I think I really love him the way he makes me feel when we first met, I knew he was different normally when I link a guy I go bright red and im really quiet when I first met him we spoke and I felt like we had known each other for time, when im sat with him time flies, I forget everything and yeah I hate myself for asking him what we was god I wish I never knew .
Hi,
As hard as it is you should try to move on. He told you he doesn't love you and if it didn't happen for a year it will never happen. Please try to continue your life. Meet new people, go to new places. Eventually you will find someone who will love you more than anyone like you deserve.
It's been over a year and he haven't saw you in that type of way. Then its best to move on and try to date if you want that. Remember you still young and he is to maybe he's not ready to be committed or just afraid! You can still be friends and set boundaries and let him know. I'm not trying to be rude but live your live honey and explore!!!
thankyou to you all for your comments,
@src1, nah he isn't I guess he's just the one I wanted that's all :) ... hun I haven't seen him after that day, after I told him how I felt and asked what we was I haven't seen him since then in December 2014,.
thankyou @rimacher(90) you're right
and @realityme(5) thankyou for your comment aswell, yeah he is I guess my problem is I fell too fast and too hard :), yea we are friends we speak every now and then thanks honey,
much love to you all for your comments and views thankyou so much seriously you don't know how much this has helped <3 <3 xxxxx