I went on a date, last night, with someone who has wanted to go out with me for a year. I was highly disappointed sadly. He didn't even take a shower after work even though he had at least 3 hours between work and me coming over for what he said was going to be steak dinner cooked on the BBQ and a movie. Dinner was steak only, and I do mean only, and we watched hockey. Sorry if you hear me snoring in the back ground right now. Oh, and did I mention that his place smelled like cat and dog urine really bad? I am picky about things smells good like me, my place, my partner..LOL And they absolutely HAVE to be a good kisser and he was not even close...So, needless to say I am still single. :( Why is it that people say they are something they are not, like Christian for instance???? Don't say it if you aren't going to go to church with me if I invite you because your true colors always show in the long run!
Before I go on any date, I would absolutely take a shower. I would rather take her to a nice restaurant then do the steak on the grill.
Just curious, you've known him for a year? Had he normally been clean in the time that you knew him?
That's good.
I had only seen him a couple times very shortly. He lives 20 miles from me. So we were always talking online and texting.
I'm sorry he turned out to be a frog and not a prince!
@InMyDreams no biggy, there are other fish in the sea right? I honestly don't worry about things like that for that long.
I am still his friend. I didn't put this on here to bash him, yes he needs to take much better care of himself and his place but that doesn't mean he is a bad person or I wouldn't have went there or kept talking to him in the first place for a year. I put it on here to open eyes to people who have been single and lonely. Not everyone takes a good look in the mirror. I'm not saying everyone is like him of course, just that we ALL have our flaws, including me. I don't believe anyone is better off alone forever. That is a very sad thought. I think he has just been depressed raising his 4 kids alone for so long that he gave up on himself and his home. He gave up "caring". But I can't be the source of that caring.
You are solely responsible for your actions.Look at the bright side, if he turned out to be a loser, the sooner you find out, the better! You are not wasting your time. I hope you meet your prince charming soon.hugs:)
I may and it may be awhile...there is a saying that I live by, "Never give up on what you want. It is better to wait then to regret." So, I wait.